Étranger

Sometimes, I find myself simply observing those who seem ‘normal’, the way they speak, the words they choose to describe their experiences, how they react, or how they present their abilities with such careful confidence. Their ease in communication fascinates me, as if they instinctively know how to navigate social expectations.

At times, being among them makes me feel out of place, as if I exist on a different wavelength. Yet, I take myself lightly, even when they joke at my expense. I do not mind, because their amusement does not define me. In fact, I feel a strange sense of joy when they fail to understand me, because, deep down, that’s exactly what I prefer.

Those of us who are born different, who experience the world through a mind that society struggles to categorize, are often labeled with terms and diagnoses. But these labels do not define us. We are nature’s unique creation, wired to perceive life in ways they cannot grasp. And perhaps, they do not need to understand us.

Only a few people ever truly see us for who we are, and that is the rarest gift. The most powerful truth is that we are the ones who teach them how to understand us. It is not luck that allows them to connect with us, it is our choice to let them in. And for that, they are truly fortunate …

A tale from a psychologically challenged soul

Cherry blossoms in Ravenscourt Park, London

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Étranger/ french
Meaning is ‘Stranger’. It reflects the sense of being apart from the norm, of existing on a different wavelength, and not being fully understood by society

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  3. Deep down, I believe everyone feels out of place. It’s just that some people are better at masking it than others. Still, I understand how you feel. Interactions with others, especially strangers, can be difficult and feel so awkward.

    But as a writer, watching others interact is always a source of inspiration.

    Hope you have a wonderful weekend, Roksana.

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    1. Thank you for your kind words. I feel less alone reading them

      And also let me tell you that I miss your valuable, insightful and thoughtful comments on my recent posts. Maybe it seemed like I took your time and words for granted, but truly, I’ve been deeply grateful for every word and the time you gave

      Wishing you a beautiful life, Richard! Take care and have a creative days always!

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